Love Me for Me

Every guy we meet thinks that they are perfect for us. The one that thinks he is funny as heck- when he isn’t. The one who thinks that thinks we have a future- but we don’t. The guy that thinks he is bad to the bone- but he is SO wrong, and the cheap date who “forgets his wallet” (like we’ve ever been asked out on a date. Pfft…” Can you see us rolling our eyes right now? These guys can’t see that our bars are raised high and we feel that we must hit every check point on our “must have’s” list.  So lucky for everyone reading (and thank you so much for doing so), we have below a check list of what we would LOVE to find in a guy.

 

~ Christian (big time, like...total Jesus freak)

~ Polite
~ Doesn't pressure us into doing something that we don't want to do
~ No drugs, alcohol, porn or sex
~ Loves himself
~ Gets along with our family and friends
~ Loves his family
~ Respects personal space
~ Talkative
~ NOT clingy
~ Dresses in a respectable manor
~ NO BAGGY PANTS!!!
~ Must feel safe with him
~ Thinks
~ Makes us better people
~ Doesn’t mind acting silly/makes me laugh
~ Takes relationship the same way i do (friendship - best friends - dating)
~ Loves us for us

When we say that we had our bars raised high we were not exaggerating. Friends and followers, if you know a guy that hits about 80% of these points, we would love to meet them- seriously, you would be doing us a huge favor (seeing as we obviously can’t find one of these on our own). Consider this a challenge. 

          So the other night, 13 and I assessed our situation while watching He’s Just Not That Into You. There was this quote- “All my friends used to tell me about how things might work out with these dipsticks because they knew someone, who knew someone, who dated a dipstick just like mine. That girl ended up getting married and living happily ever after. That’s the exception, and we're not the exception we're the rule.” Does that make sense or what?

                Alas, we shall sit tight and hold onto our seat while waiting for the perfect guy to come along, make the right moves and make us feel like we are the only girls in the world that matter.  We need them to love us enough so that when we leave or when they leave that they spend the rest of their lives pining for us and die miserable and alone because they know inside that we were the only person for them. Is that so much to ask? Is that over kill?

                Either way, we will someday, somehow find someone out there for us- or God will. God does all the dirty work for us. Which brings us to another point- Think of God as our matchmaker or our dating service. He will find us the right guy and all we have to do stay aware. So we shall now leave you. Have a great week!