Superficial

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Ohhhhh how looks dominate this world. And we, as Christian ladies are taught from birth to view it as fiendish to even think looks could be a part of the love equation. As much as I would like to say I could marry a dwarf or a really ugly person, it’s not my pleasure to. Unless God shot me with a lightning bolt and pointed to someone of that...”physique” I truly can’t say I would go for it. This week, we’re talking about LOOKS. Woohoo! If I were to create an ideal guy (as much as my fantasies go), he would be a blondie with freckles and a nice body. Now, sweet guys come in all shapes and sizes, but, oohh to have a blondie. Confession time; blondes with deep voices are the bees knees in my lovely brain. Or, as my previous teen brain had come to find guys with dark hair and pale skin.....yah my choices vary, lol. At this point, I have found many unattractive guys to be the sweetest and good looking ones to be taken. The jerks have been too old, and the young ones have been too oblivious to have a clue. Ladies, if all of our fantasies were to come true we wouldn’t value them as we do when the (from totally unsuspected places) ones pop up as a blessing to all our hard work. How do we get them on our radar though? Gosh what a question. It’s actually quite challenging because of the walls media has influenced the great guys to put up, and the warped fashion that has put off an incorrect insides example. Although, I think the ones who truly show who they are, ARE the “great guys” to date anyways. So, wait Rose, are you saying I should be okay with stereotyping people? Naw, well…to an extent :P  I can agree upon “believing the (uncontrollable) nose shape is a tell-sign to a guy’s value as a potential boyfriend” motto is stupid, but, “profiling” is a good way to microscope potential, if done realistically. I mean hygiene, dress, and crowd. My ideal guy is not in a scholary pollo and pressed khaki’s, nor covered in piercings and hanging out with druggies. I’m not talking overload specific needs or else I’m not dating him kind of search. We’re taking a step back and looking at what we are getting into. It’s smart. My hope is to find “him” in a clean crowd, valuing himself, and paying attention to the person he presents himself to be. This isn’t all I’m looking at, but it is in the “looks requirements”. To judge somebody by the crowd and clothes sounds shallow, but it previews what kind of person he is in a sense. And we all need some sense needing teenagers! As far as I know I’m pretty flexible, but still praying for what I deserve; a sweet man with a sense of humor and God in him....and maybe be a blonde ;) Who knows who I will end up with in the end, or in reality that I’ll first date. All I know is I’m trying my best to keep my eyes open and keep my heart growing for the moment I see a potential. I don’t mean see a “guy who looks like the ideal”, but know a guy who could be potential. It’s all a patient process ladies. I’m not a patient woman so God help me, but I know He will, and I’m not afraid anymore. Off to scout the mall! Just kidding, I’m not that creepy :P I actually should be held up in my room like and shrew and studying for my AP exams 

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As for me, I have come down with the apocalyptic flu that seems to be going around all across the state of Washington. Over in Snohomish County they had to close the school it was so bad. I don’t blame the, this thing sucks like nothing else. So, being all this flu medicine junk is causing me to go a little off my rocker, I shall give my best shot at actually writing something worth reading.

 Alrighty, looks wise, I would (and this is NOT because I’m too lazy to ponder this myself) I would have to agree with my counterpart. Preferably- no absolutely MUST be taller than me. I’m already pretty short, so there’s that. PLEASE, for goodness sake, no long hair. I hate that junk. I’d prefer the race to be same as mine- Caucasian- no racism intended.

                I’m a little bit too exhausted and worn out to write the rest so I just threw out the must haves. I think that a huge part of settling for something is how high or low your bar is raised. Now, I don’t know about the rest of you, but I refuse to settle for anything less than everything.

                There it is- a very insightful, superficial post from 884 Days. Thanks for stopping in this week everyone. I shall do better next week when I can actually think. ;)