Ready? Ready For What?

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        Are we really ready for a relationship? Is this goal of ours too simple for our specific value and definition of a dating relationship, or even a guy TO date? I can not believe we would ever forsake you guys....but it could happen. As much as Fe and I may have the dream to date someone, it is so much more lengthy and harder than we thought. I mean with our standards and already independant nature, we don’t see a light at the end of this tunnel by graduation. We see how challenging it is to find a guy. Now, how much energy do you suppose it takes to keep him too? We feel so bitter yet freed from the truth that we are not ready to do that. Our romantic endevours or, as we’ve looked back on them as and like to call them, shenanigans, need to be put to a stop. A quick break was our first intention, but once that stress rolled of our shoulders, we knew this was gonna come; the moment when we say this blog may have no parents to nurture it. Me, being the Rose that I am, view this as our baby, our special project as friends! So, don’t be goin’ thinking that this is a snooty rain check FOR THE REST OF OUR LIVES, but also, don’t be thinking that this is just a fluke. Our lives are morphing and gravitating more of our attention. As we get older, we are starting to see the priorities. We originally wanted to write freely about our random encounters and hints of lovey-dubbyness and keep record of the funnyness and be in this “love search” together. Sadly, these events are wearing us down, and focusing on it is terribly ruining the joy of being “young, dumb, and in love” (Mat Kearney) We have found ourselves delving way to deep into boy-business and analyzing every little thing.

In conclusion, this is of the few last posts we shall be doing. It was a joy ride while it lasted and thanks for lasting throught the tears and laughs with us. You guys we truly awesome readers. You encouraged us and reminded us of what this project was really for till the very end of the year. Alas, we have lost touch of the tween inside us haha. It would be one thing if we truly had love to write about, but we don’t actually. It became inner arguments and analyzing of how we think love should approach us. It was tween drama magnified. Even if it was a juicy movie script, we were run down by it; run down by our great attempts of making things more than they were. It’s time for us to grow up ladies. We’re putting on our big girl britches and charging towards jobs, school, careers, passions; the real stuff. Preparation for something or someone amazing in our lives is instore, and we don’t want to miss the time. We are maturing our priority list. And this blog is head-diving to the bottom of it.

Now that you’ve gotten the picture, I still have room for a little tidbit of romantic fluff:

One of the last bits of advice to you ladies from Rose - 

To know if you’re ready for a relationship you must know yourself, your hormones, and really good girlfriends. It’s the defense for your heart. 

It’s really not over-rated to be under control bodily and emotional in a dating relationship.

If you fall over the cliff, there’s never any shame in flee’ing away from a broken relationship; it’s breaking you and them the longer you stay. 

Have knowledge in the good guys that still exist; 1 or 6 guys out of 7 billion doesn’t count as representation of the male population. 

There’s no going back in the stupid mistakes you make in a relationship; choose your reactions wisely.

Enjoy the happy times even if there’s an impending storm. You can prepare by holding onto the good times.

        XOXO

Fe & Rose

Single & Loveable

  "Afraid of losing my chances...It’s only a little while I have my pretty youth...It’s easier...I have to, to get the experience...I want excitement...I’m going to get the satisfaction and happiness...I want...There’s nothing that could ever fulfill its place." DATING....the reasons we here to date, the reasons we give ourselves to “get out there”; Ahhh…the pressure we’re getting as teenagers! Will that area of our life ever get a break from the questioning and poking? Then on top of outside forces, we ourselves have this imbedded need for meaningful relationships. Sure that’s a born trait, but what we do with that desire, is getting so out of hand as a society. Supposedly, we’re supposed to be unrestrained in our desires. The world raises a perspective that we are born for “romantic relationships”, therefore it’s okay and sometimes a must in most ages. They say it’s never too soon to develop one (a relationship), and it’s a quick revelation. “We should go after the desire once it hits”......I have a question; do I have the same definition of dating we’re talking about here? I’m looking for ACTION, VERB LOVE within this activity if you haven’t figured that out yet :) The world says I should be looking for the quick fix to my loneliness or hole in my heart through dating, among other processes. MOST OF SOCIETY AND I DON’T GET ALONG AS YOU CAN TELL. For those of you that are not into dating right now like I am, or taking a break from it, I solute you. You are so strong; squishing the world’s lips whispering to date continually. I raise my toe to you ladies who are in the position of being single and waiting on love/a GOOD relationship. It’s hard. I know. If you’re dating someone you like, good for you! I hope its meaningful relationship that succeeds! So, don’t be saying I was subjugating taken women ;) I love them to death for surviving the first awkwardness Fe and I haven’t faced yet. Continuing, the purpose of dating doesn’t have to do with fulfilling a desire, and being single doesn’t have to do with being empty in reality. It’s so hard not to believe that though with all the teasing and advertisements. So, I don’t blame our fellow lovelies who are lost in the midst of the distortion. I actually feel so sad for them! Not annoyed or disgusted. Listen to your heart ladies. Listen to your beliefs and listen to your mothers. It’s a dog eat dog world out there; It’s a person suck the life out of the other person world. Dating isn’t for sucking! In either forms of the word!! So, without further or do, after that short-stop with inappropriateness, I go on my loveable spiel now-

  I’ve learned being single is an opportunity, not a limit. Whether you’ve been in a relationship before or not even gotten “the talk”, there’s a lot to do while being numero uno that is quite lovely! I get to plant deep roots; live to where people remember me. There is the chance to cultivate healthy relationships with people. I can freely get to know other guys and know how to associate with them (note to self though: you don't have to want to date someone to get to know them). In all, I have the time to prepare for the future relationship that comes my way with ultimate possibilities. Being single and loveable is all about growing yourself for the excitement of dating when either you’re ready, or have him suddenly come upon you so you have to connect with him. It’s like armoring yourself all while enjoying the prosperity of the freedom at hand. I think I like that philosophy more than sitting at home wondering why no ideal guys have interest in me. There are huge opportunities you have while being single and if other people say you have no purpose, like I’ve experienced, I am here to tell you they are DEAD WRONG. You worth more than a phone number or being known as the silly virgin. You have standards, sense, and time to fill.....okay that last one sounded depressing, but I mean you have time to fill with fun things you wouldn’t be able to do if you were getting’ it on with cupid. Truly finding happiness within yourself is a big step towards being the best person for that guy you always dreamed of. So, while being single, I personally plan to bathe in the freedom of flirtation, regular commitments, and just jiving with other guys. As a hint toward next week’s subject, knowing if I’m prepared or not for a relationship if a chance arises? Being happy single will clear the fog of indecision. I’ll be confident in myself to weigh out the pros and cons of that opportunity when it comes. There are truly benefits to having a loveable value of you and self-improving while single. Plus, all this “developing” and “associating” isn’t that lonely. So, take that society who thinks I’m lonely!! I don’t need a significant other to prove that I am valuable or loveable. I am not leftovers. And the same go to my readers!

XOXO,

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Our Current Romantic Endevours

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 Hey guys! So the world of 13 today - pancakes, coffee, tackled by a friend randomly dropping by, and sitting at my computer (which is now called “lamp post”). Its 4am, and I still haven’t gotten to writing anything for you guys; procrastination. But, I’m finally sitting down (metaphorically speaking) and telling you about my life, romantically speaking. So much speaking (This is not what Jumping Bean and I are doing). We’re not talking at all, and maybe that’s for the good. You know me though; I don’t want to stop associating with the kid if we can still be friends. He’s like a disease that’s never going to get out of my head! Poor me with brain damage, asking for stress again! I can’t imagine not being friends with him, yet I can’t see us platonically working without a wrench if “I still really like you” always coming at me. Aye, what to do....actually what to hope for? Am I being selfish praying for a ripped relationship to mend out of the preexisting torn pieces? Is God on our side in this friendship? *looks for a sigh* If there’s so much stress and ickyness in a relationship is it meant to be? Hey, I’, only 16 and don’t know a whole lot even as I’m writing a “relationship blog”. The summer is here and time or me to learn this kind of stuff without so much distraction *gets FB notification* eheh....Anyways! In conclusion, Rose is confused (normal).

     Speaking of confusion, guess who got 35 boxes of Honey Graham OH’s cereal? Haha, so I was basically crying and laughing and gaping all at the same time when I came home to this, which was put in my house by BREAK-IN! Yes, ladies and gentlemen, my house was broken into. What was stolen? Only kitchen table space where all the boxes were left. Long story, but my male friend and I have a yearly tradition of giving one gift to each other instead of each holiday. At random times in the year we’ll plant our gift. It’s a tradition :P We shall call him “the robber” if I talk of him again, since he broke into my house!

23,as you probably can deduce, is relaxingly not handling boy-business. She's happy at the moment preparing for her research trip and focusing on her busy life. It's quite nice to take a break from developing relationships with guys isn't it? It won't be long though that that break will soon fade away...and she isn’t happy about it! 

Well thank you for checking in on such short notice! I’ll have a regular post up by Saturday evening (it’ll be a long one) and just to let you know, as you can see to the right *makes fancy hand gesture*, we have an iTunes playlist of songs we have used on this blog and more! Enjoy the tunes and have a good rest of your week!

Medianess!!

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EVERYTHING HAPPENS IN GEOMETRY. Literally, I should be working in my geometry final right now, but I am taking a break from the test to write to you (Don’t do that at home kids)! Bad Rose but I have so much to tell! In example, I will be the lone ranger on this blog for 4-5 weeks. If you haven’t caught our Facebook video notice before I posted this puppy then here you go. We love you guys very much but life comes before media (tell that to the world), Fe shall be returning sometime late in July :) No worries though; if she tried to escape I would just rope her back in! She WILL be back my lovelies! In other business, since it’s summer we can play around a bit with spreading our wings, per say. A YouTube channel will be up and going ATLEAST by Fe’s return! What do you all think? Please, please, please input your opinion downstairs (the comment box) or on our Facebook page! We’d really like to make this blog better for our viewers! (It would be used for any extra stiff we want to tell you and when we have our interactive project (spoiler alert). So this is our mass mediaful and changing message to you! We hope you’re having a grand week and if you’re already out of school, then we hope you’re having an even better than grand weekend! Check us out in the middle of the week and we’ll.....actually I *cries*, will have a regular post up as to not to deprive you. Look at this artistic rendition of high school. 

(and if you haven’t seen the video notice here’s the public link for ya: http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=458413284171542&set=vb.149514041830380&type=2&theater) although it’s pretty bad quality and i ramble :P